Am I limited to what I can BE if I don't HAVE what I want to manifest?
A bullseye, successful manifestation is consistently following a very focused desire. As a result, many of us hold the belief that if we didn't get the exact outcomes in what we intended to manifest, we are just not wishing hard enough. Maybe yes, maybe no. Let me explain.
Confession:
The Law of Unwavering Desire was not easily understandable for me at first. The Law of Unwavering Desire is often as "Your desires must be strong and passionate to attract what you want." However, as I woke up this morning I had the epiphany of a profound meaning of The Law of Unwavering Desire, how it works, and a giant highlighter over what I had been confused about. Don't you love how source communicates with us just when we really need it the most? Perhaps it was something I dreamt, but when my eyes opened- it was crystal clear! Of course, it is paramount to decide what you want and find the frequencies that will attract this, but do we truly maintain these frequencies? I mean I have in the past had what I thought was the most focused desire and nothing I was doing was unwavering in my desire and yet my outcomes have not materialized as intended.
The light bulb moment: BE, DO, HAVE
Have you ever heard the expression, or perhaps studied, the concept of "BE, DO, HAVE?" Here is a quick overview: Us humans tend to want to have things. We also have a tendency to tell ourselves something like “When I have this, I can then do things (I am probably not doing now), and I will be this different version of myself.” In conclusion, in the process of wanting things it is common to develop a Have, Do, Be mindset. This can completely interfere with the frequencies of law of unwavering desires, as it is the right components, but the wrong order of the formula.
Isn’t this exciting? Let’s look a bit deeper, as understanding this piece can crack the code to your desires.
Some of us are a bit confused, thinking we need to have whatever our big desire is, as a condition for implementing changes we want to make. As a result, we spend our days focusing on smaller desires. Yes! We spend our time, thoughts and actions focused on secondary goals, because we have somehow convinced ourselves that the primary goals need to have manifested prior to putting words, thoughts and actions toward this. You can see that by focusing on secondary desires, we are settling, and the reason for settling often comes with a lack- or low vibrational- energy.
Example of low vibrational desires
HAVE x DO= BE
HAVE: I want to have abundance in my life.
DO: (Once I have) then I can do the things I say I actually want to do. Ex., pay off all my bills, donate to my favorite charities, and have plenty of money to play and do the things I like to do.
BE: Then, I will be happy and fulfilled (which is actually a state, not your identity, which is a whole other conversation).
Examples of high vibrational desires
BE x DO= HAVE
BE: This is who you are. It is your identity, not a fleeting emotion.
DO: When we identify as our true, authentic selves, opportunities come to us with ease. We are literally aligned with the events around us, and the actions we take are natural as a result.
HAVE: Limitless opportunities, which is perfectly aligned with the abundance you truly seek.
It is the power of I AM.
So many of us confuse our identity with what we want to have. We may even create subconscious resistance to both what we want and our deepest desire of our identity, by the emphasis that it is something we presently lack. But, when we focus on what we already do have, and feel grateful for, more things similar to what we have and enjoy show up.
We simply attract what we are.
This is a gamechanger! Fully understanding BE x DO = HAVE is key to aligning to the frequency of The Law of Unwavering Desire. Being who you are, attracts more of what you want to be, because you are fully aligned with it at this moment. When we come from our I AM there is a purity in the intentions, release of fear, doubt and desperation which is paramount to The Law of Unwavering Desire.
How to use this in your business
Be your best BE-ing. You are a human BE-ing. You are not a human DO-ing or a human HAV-ing. It is when WHO you are is authentically aligned, the doing and having falls in line without conscious effort- just like breathing or your heartbeat. When you are the best you, your life and business instantly click into place, like magnets.
Help others be their best BE-ing as well. No surprise when we focus on human to human connection our business thrives. Other people want us to do well when we are also rooting for them. In sales we often say "who do people think of when they think of ____your profession____?" The answer we want them to answer, of course, is us! This is a perfect result of what happens when you focus on your customer's BE-ing, not their HAVE-ing, or DO-ing.
So in conclusion: BE great and abundant x Do great and abundant activity = HAVE greatness and abundance.
Abundantly forward,
Bear
